My Father is a cool guy, the best father ever!
He is right in the center of the picture above..
It was 5 years ago, Dindra was so small (Now, he is taller than me) and Upil was very 'Tembem', hehe
My father was still young also,
I really love my Father, he is my hero.
Though we didn't have a good relationship in the past.
Because of his work, my Father has to stay in Jakarta and only go home once a month,
Because of his work, he almost never stay at home during Idul Fitri day, thus sometimes it's very strange to see him on Eid-day.. :)
I was afraid of my Father, we almost never talk to each other personally at that time.
If I had a wish, I never ask my Father, I definitely can't ask him! Because I was afraid of him.
Why?
It was because of intensity, we just met once a month, and the 'day' when my Father coming home was the most diligent day I ever had. I will do everything that my Mom asked, no matter what happened, I studied hard without reading comics, I never watch TV until night, I went back home ASAP from school, I made my room super tidy and I woke up super early.
It was tiring actually but it just to show to my Father that I'd became a good girl, though he's not at home.
I was studied hard because I just want to listen to him saying that he's proud of me every semester.
However, the feeling to make everything seemed to be perfect grew a bigger distance between me and Father. We can't talk casually.
But now I stay in Jakarta, I only have Father to talk to when I got homesick.
I only have Father to ask for help when I need something.
Yes, I only lean on him.
Since I live in Jakarta we're getting closer. We can even have jokes, we can laugh together.
There's no distance or awkward moment.
I just realized that my Father is super funny person, thus sometimes when he called me, he seemed like 'Om-om' because the way he talked to me was like a friend but still he has the wisdom as a Father.
Since I live in Jakarta, I started to call him 'Papih' because it looked like we're close to each other.
I was touched by Papih's action when I didn't have anyone to pick me up from Jun Gyu's apartment, I was tired at that time. I called my Father and he said he will pick me up after work,
It means I need to wait for an hour, no problemo.
but two hours passed and I had not seen him, I was worries yet a bit angry to him. Why he didn't send any message to me.
When I finally met him, I saw his thumb was covered by 'Perban' he said that he had a little accident while washing his motorcycle. Thus, he actually can't drive a motorcycle yet, he can but it would be very slow.
But he picked me up, with a hurt thumb. I lost my words, I even can't say that I was angry a while ago.
My Father can do everything for me.. his smile is my strength, his wisdom is like a warm blanket for me,
and his hard work is something that makes me feel encouraged to give my best.
I really love my father, someday, I definitely will have a husband like him. ^^
Saranghaeyo Abeoji~~ :-*
